Writing – The Hard Parts And Hates

1. It never stops
Once you adopt that writer’s mindset, it doesn’t stop. You could be watching a film, doing your business on the toilet, eating at a nice restaurant with your family. It makes no difference. You will have random thoughts about ways to fix a storyline, things to add to a character’s development or plot at all the times of the day.

2. Procrastination
You never realise how many distractions there are around you until you sit down to work on your book or even a blog post. Technology is an obvious distraction but I’m talking about that plus others. Others like the sun shining through the window, your own hunger because you forgot to eat lunch. Sometimes, my own thoughts will distract me from thinking about another book or plotline for something I’m not working on right that second. Sometimes it’s really easy to write but most of the time it can feel like the world is working against you.

3. Getting it down on paper
Picture this, you’ve just imagined the most amazing plot line, characters and pretty much much of the story down to the little details, but, writing down is a whole other order of business. Describing what you imagine can be half the work in writing. It can take endless amounts of reworks, drafts and edits to get it to sound how you imagined.

4. Revisions and Drafts
The best feeling for me is when you finish writing a book, unfortunately, that’s only the beginning. Writing the first draft is the easy part. It’s the revisions, drafts and edits that are killer. Overhauling the whole book, taking chunks out here and there, putting chunks back in, checking for grammatical errors, punctuation. It takes so long and it makes you want to pull your hair out. You can have your book written in 3 months but it might take you another 6 months to a year to get it ready for publishing.

5. Reading is research
Once you become a writer you get a writer’s brain, like I was saying at the beginning, it never stops. That includes reading I’m afraid. If anything reading is the worst for getting your writing brain going for obvious reasons. You compare, critique and get ideas for your storylines from others works. Reading becomes your research. You will enjoy the books you read but you can’t sink into the pages like you once did.

6. Marketing
Once you’ve written your book, gone through a crazy amount of drafts and revisions, you finally get to publish it. But, now you have to spend the rest of your life marketing that book alongside working on others and every new book you release is just another to focus on marketing while writing another…see where I’m going with this? It’s endless. Plus…you also have to know how to market your books and who to market them too which can be a challenge in itself. With the number of marketing tools we have to hand, the options are endless which can make it tough making decisions.

If this put’s you off ever trying your hand at writing then fear not, I have an obvious post coming up about the things I love about writing because despite the annoyances involved, I love writing.

2 thoughts on “Writing – The Hard Parts And Hates

  1. I relate so much to all of this, especially to #1. Very thoughtful post about rhe difficulties of being a writer. I like your points. I find that the most time-consuming part of being a writer, as you reference in #1, is just the thought-space I have to set aside to let the story and its themes untangle itself in my mind so that when I go to put it on paper and refine it, it is already somewhat cohesive. I am currently finalizing a book right now and I would say that 80% of my time has been just sitting and thinking. I used to be the kind of person who needs background noise on at all times (TV, podcasts, music) but I find that when I let myself have relative silence to process my thoughts, my creativity explodes. It is so easy to numb the writer’s mental burden because it is an ache at times, but I think when I lean in to that ache and use it to create, my life is more fulfilling. Really like your stuff. Looking forward to reading more!

    1. Thank you for the kind comments. Yes agree 100% I used to have the TV or music on in the background but I work so much better in silence. If anything having things on in the background can also influence the writing down a certain path which we don’t want. Yes writing has its challenges but it can also be an amazing rainbow of creativity 🙂

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